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Beardy Star Stuff 🏴🌹🇵🇸 and 2 others boosted
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@resplendent606@climatejustice.social  ·  activity timestamp 2 weeks ago

2025 was a year of radical change for me. Despite a UCTD flare up, I lost 50 lbs and took the vital step of cutting ties with toxic family to protect my mental health. Most importantly, I finally came out openly as Queer. I am omnisexual, and living that truth has been a major part of my journey this year.

I also finally deGoogled. It was a hard but cathartic experience. I deleted my accounts with Google, Microsoft, Amazon, Discord, Facebook, Twitter, and Reddit, moving my digital life to privacy-respecting, left-leaning services. Embracing FOSS, Debian, Docker, and Proxmox has been an incredible learning journey.

Moving to the Fediverse has been life-changing. For an introvert, finding a home here and posting regularly has been huge!

For 2026, I’m leaning toward the analog. I want to solidify my journaling habit, read more, and start walking in the beautiful park near our new home. I am even hoping to pick up a 35mm film camera.

Thank you to everyone I have interacted with here for giving me such a great outlet. I look forward to more conversations in the coming year.

Happy New Year and stay safe!

NoAI gnu tux ♿️ 🏳️‍🌈

#noAI #DeGoogle #FOSS #OpenSource #SelfHosted #PrivacyMatters #Linux #DigitalSovereignty #MentalHealth #ChronicIllness #UCTD #Disability #Journaling #AnalogLife #FilmPhotography #Fediverse #Mastodon #Humanism #Queer #NewYear2026 #Omnisexual #ComingOut

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Wooden letter tiles spelling out "HAPPY NEW YEAR" on a white background, flanked by two branches of fresh oranges with green leaves.
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Bryan (he/him) 🇺🇸 🏳️‍🌈
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@resplendent606@climatejustice.social  ·  activity timestamp 2 weeks ago

2025 was a year of radical change for me. Despite a UCTD flare up, I lost 50 lbs and took the vital step of cutting ties with toxic family to protect my mental health. Most importantly, I finally came out openly as Queer. I am omnisexual, and living that truth has been a major part of my journey this year.

I also finally deGoogled. It was a hard but cathartic experience. I deleted my accounts with Google, Microsoft, Amazon, Discord, Facebook, Twitter, and Reddit, moving my digital life to privacy-respecting, left-leaning services. Embracing FOSS, Debian, Docker, and Proxmox has been an incredible learning journey.

Moving to the Fediverse has been life-changing. For an introvert, finding a home here and posting regularly has been huge!

For 2026, I’m leaning toward the analog. I want to solidify my journaling habit, read more, and start walking in the beautiful park near our new home. I am even hoping to pick up a 35mm film camera.

Thank you to everyone I have interacted with here for giving me such a great outlet. I look forward to more conversations in the coming year.

Happy New Year and stay safe!

NoAI gnu tux ♿️ 🏳️‍🌈

#noAI #DeGoogle #FOSS #OpenSource #SelfHosted #PrivacyMatters #Linux #DigitalSovereignty #MentalHealth #ChronicIllness #UCTD #Disability #Journaling #AnalogLife #FilmPhotography #Fediverse #Mastodon #Humanism #Queer #NewYear2026 #Omnisexual #ComingOut

Wooden letter tiles spelling out "HAPPY NEW YEAR" on a white background, flanked by two branches of fresh oranges with green leaves.
Wooden letter tiles spelling out "HAPPY NEW YEAR" on a white background, flanked by two branches of fresh oranges with green leaves.
Wooden letter tiles spelling out "HAPPY NEW YEAR" on a white background, flanked by two branches of fresh oranges with green leaves.
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@IAmDannyBoling@mstdn.social  ·  activity timestamp 3 months ago

Whatever "coming out" means to you, it's OK if you're not ready yet. The most important thing is that you #BeYourself. heart_pride progresspride

#NationalComingOutDay #ComingOut #LGBT #LGBTQIA #Lesbian #Gay #BiSexual #Trans #Pride #PrideInYourself #IAmDB

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@IAmDannyBoling@mstdn.social  ·  activity timestamp 3 months ago

Whatever "coming out" means to you, it's OK if you're not ready yet. The most important thing is that you #BeYourself. heart_pride progresspride

#NationalComingOutDay #ComingOut #LGBT #LGBTQIA #Lesbian #Gay #BiSexual #Trans #Pride #PrideInYourself #IAmDB

Illustration of a turtle with a rainbow-colored body partially hiding in its shell (we can see its front legs and part of its head peeking out), accompanied by the text "It's OK if you're not ready yet."
Illustration of a turtle with a rainbow-colored body partially hiding in its shell (we can see its front legs and part of its head peeking out), accompanied by the text "It's OK if you're not ready yet."
Illustration of a turtle with a rainbow-colored body partially hiding in its shell (we can see its front legs and part of its head peeking out), accompanied by the text "It's OK if you're not ready yet."
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@proudnb@todon.nl  ·  activity timestamp 6 months ago

It’s not your fault if you have to leave everyone you’ve ever known because they couldn’t accept you for being nonbinary.

It’s not a reflection of your inadequacy. It’s a sign of their failing.

And you are still lovable and worthy of friendship even if you have to start over.

Be glad that this time around you will have better, stronger relationships.

#ComingOut #friends #family #NonBinary #NonBinaryPositivity

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@proudnb@todon.nl  ·  activity timestamp 6 months ago

It’s not your fault if you have to leave everyone you’ve ever known because they couldn’t accept you for being nonbinary.

It’s not a reflection of your inadequacy. It’s a sign of their failing.

And you are still lovable and worthy of friendship even if you have to start over.

Be glad that this time around you will have better, stronger relationships.

#ComingOut #friends #family #NonBinary #NonBinaryPositivity

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