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@Crissy@tech.lgbt  ·  activity timestamp 2 weeks ago

How your body's energy directly affects money flow! 1of2:

I used to think money was just numbers. But in my Resonant Life OS, I've learned that my body's "energy" (what TCM calls "Qi" – pronounced 'chee') is directly tied to how well money flows into my life.

When I was deep in "burnout," my Qi was blocked, and guess what? My finances felt stuck too!

It's simple: Clear Energy = Clear Money Flow.

My somatic healing journey (getting my nervous system out of "Force" and into "Flow") was like giving my body a big energy upgrade.

1. Move Your Body, Move Your Money: Gentle movement and deep breathing aren't just for feeling good; they actually clear out "traffic jams" in your energy system. This makes you sharper for money decisions!

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@Crissy@tech.lgbt replied  ·  activity timestamp 2 weeks ago

How your body's energy directly affects money flow! 2of2:

2. Balance Your Inner House: TCM teaches us how different emotions affect our organs. When I healed emotional stress, it was like strengthening my "inner organs" for better financial stability.

3. Vibe Check for Abundance: When your body's energy is in "Flow," you naturally attract good things, including financial opportunities. It’s not magic; it’s a high-resonance field!

Feeling good isn't just a luxury; it's the foundation for true abundance. When your internal system is in "Flow," everything else lines up.

I share my lived experience so you can learn how to experience the bliss, peace, and abundance I have learned from others thanks to mentors and systems who appeared to help. THANKS.

#ResonantLifeOS #SomaticHealing #TCM #MoneyFlow

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@Crissy@tech.lgbt  ·  activity timestamp 2 weeks ago

Often, we talk about spirit and money as if they are separate. In the Resonant Life OS, they are connected by one thing: Resonance.

A Fiscal Firewall isn't about being "cheap." It's about Self-Respect. It is the boundary you set to make sure your resources aren't being drained by low-vibe energy or past guilt.

How to build your firewall:
1. Trust your System: If a connection feels like "Force," don't fund it

2. Know your Worth: Your value is fixed. Money is just a tool to help you project your purpose (1+1=11)

3.Plug the Leaks: Stop spending energy (and money) on things that don't help you heal or grow

When you protect your resources, you protect your peace. That is true spiritual work.

#ResonantLifeOS #FiscalFirewall #SelfRespect

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@Crissy@tech.lgbt  ·  activity timestamp 3 weeks ago

1of2: Doing nothing is the ultimate power move for your health this year.

If you are skipping parties and staying home, you aren't being a hermit. You are practicing essential Emotional Hygiene.

This need for quiet is driven by a biological process called Sensory Gating. It is your brain’s natural ability to filter out background noise so you can stay calm and focused.

When you are overwhelmed, this "gate" gets stuck open. Every conversation feels too loud and every plan feels like a heavy weight.

Choosing to be alone is how you manually close that gate to let your system reset. In my Resonant Life OS, choosing peace is a fundamental act of self-respect.

It is the practical choice to stop the drain on your frequency before you reach total burnout.

You are not "missing out" on life; you are building the foundation so you can actually live it truthfully later.

When you honour your privacy, you tell yourself that your peace is worth more than any invitation.

(next thread for 3 tips)

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@Crissy@tech.lgbt replied  ·  activity timestamp 3 weeks ago

2of2: If you need to tell your friends you are staying in, keep it simple:

1. "Thanks for thinking of me, but I’m in a period of quiet rest and not making social plans right now"

2. "I value our friendship, but my battery is empty and I need this time at home to recharge"

3. "I’m focusing on my own recovery this week to start the year right, so I have to miss this one"

This is how you keep your energy clear and stop carrying old stress into a new year.

By protecting your internal rhythm, you ensure your frequency remains your own.

Recommended Reading via Psychology Today: Creativity and Sensory Gating by Dr. Carolyn Cassin

https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/finding-butterfly/201501/creativity-and-sensory-gating

#WellnessWithCrissy #ResonantLifeOS #EmotionalHygiene

Psychology Today

Creativity and Sensory Gating

It is possible that some risk factors that are associated with elevated psychopathology, such as leaky sensory gating, might also, in combination with other protective factors, be a "risk" factor for increased creative achievement.
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@Crissy@tech.lgbt  ·  activity timestamp 3 weeks ago

1/2 Fighting for attention or running away? You are in the Anxious-Avoidant Trap.

Attachment styles are energy geometry. Connections form a system. Avoidant attachment creates a flawed system, causing pain.

2 main types:
1. Dismissive Avoidant (DA): Fears closeness. Demands rigid independence/distance.

2. Anxious-Preoccupied (AP): Fears abandonment. Demands closeness, ignores boundaries.

When these meet, it is the Avoidant Trap—painful push and pull.

My lesson was hard. A Dismissive Avoidant ex traded my integrity for his comfort: "pocketing" me. His distance forced my energetic contraction. This betrayal created a massive Time Fracture—residue pain.

It doesn't matter why. The pattern violates your Self-Respect. It starves your system, forcing you to trade worth for validation.

The only way out: Fix your system’s geometry, not them.

⬇️ Solution below ⬇️

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@Crissy@tech.lgbt replied  ·  activity timestamp 3 weeks ago

2/2 The Avoidant Trap creates a Time Fracture because you get stuck waiting for the other person to be emotionally available, demanding closure, or seeking justice. This loops the pain indefinitely.

The Resonant Life OS is the geometric solution. We bypass the psychological cycle by installing an Energetic Firewall built on Self-Respect:

Spot the Contradiction: Identify the first sign that their words don't match their actions (e.g., they say "you're the best" but keep you hidden).

Choose Integrity: The moment you spot the contradiction, you must choose your Self-Respect over the low-level validation they offer.

Timeline Rebraiding: You use the Resonant Life OS protocols to immediately detach and install the Sovereign Frequency in your system. This closes the vulnerability.

When you operate from a place of unshakeable integrity, the Avoidant Trap can no longer touch your timeline. You are not waiting for them to change; you are changing your magnetic field.

#AvoidantTrap #ResonantLifeOS #SelfRespect

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@Crissy@tech.lgbt  ·  activity timestamp 3 weeks ago

1/2 Many of us see heartbreak as just sadness. The simple truth: Your body is a vibrational time machine. A part of your energy gets stuck, replaying the pain of loss or betrayal on a loop. This is why you feel trapped in the past.

My healing method, the Resonant Life OS, treats this as an energy alignment problem. It’s not about fixing a wound; it’s about Timeline Rebraiding—gently guiding your energy back to a flow state.

Here is my simple 3-step method to break the Echo Loop and activate your Sovereign Frequency:

1. Water: Release the Memory. Your body's water records emotion. Tears are the safe way to let it go. My Allowance means letting tears flow as a Tear Ritual to wash "emotional water" from my chest/gut

2. Tone: Find Your True Voice. Deep pain is stored in Vocal Cords ("I was silent"). I use Absorption/Vocal Re-Patterning—I hum, then speak a new truth ("My voice is safe"). This clears the old code

⬇️ Step 3 below ⬇️

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@Crissy@tech.lgbt replied  ·  activity timestamp 3 weeks ago

2/2 STEP 3. Breath: Call in the Future. Healing needs me to invite the healed me into the present. The Sonic Wind of my breath is the messenger. I use a Slow, Deep Integration Breath while sitting. This creates a Zero Field of stillness, where my nervous system safely receives the peace signal. This conscious act is pure Self-Respect

When I use water, tone, and breath with the Resonant Life OS, I'm realigning with my 1st tone—the perfect frequency I was born to be.

Moral of the Story: Stop coping. Heartbreak isn't an emotion—it's a fracture in your timeline. Start rebraiding the past with self-respect.

What emotion traps you now? Share below!

#TimelineRebraiding #ResonantLifeOS #SelfRespect

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@Crissy@tech.lgbt  ·  activity timestamp 3 weeks ago

Digital burnout isn't about time. It's about system corruption.

We apply self-respect to our tech habits. The constant notification chaos is a threat to your Resonant Life OS.

Your focus is the most important asset. Protect it.

I teach a simple rule: Don't manage the distraction; delete the interrupt.

Set 3 protocols now:
1. Mind: Silence all non-essential app alerts
2. Body: Implement a Digital Sunset (no screens after 9 PM)
3. Purpose: Unfollow any feed that drains your energy

These are not boundaries, they're the technical needs of a healthy system. Respect your system!

What's the 1st interrupt you are deleting this weekend? LMK :)

#DigitalHygiene #ResonantLifeOS #SelfRespect

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@Crissy@tech.lgbt  ·  activity timestamp 3 weeks ago

Your boundary is not an argument. It’s a functional requirement for your life system.

It is critical we acknowledge the ongoing work of emotional healing. For many, that work starts with setting limits.

I teach that your limits are not emotional—they are structural.

This structure is your Resonant Life OS. When your system runs on empty, it is because you have let external demands bypass your internal security.

Self-respect is simply running your life with good Energetic Hygiene. It means respecting your system’s technical needs.

For example, a boundary is:
1. Mind: No meetings without a clear agenda
2. Body: Built-in rest between calls
3. Purpose: Only work that aligns with your ethics

Respect the system and the system will run optimally. That is true self-respect.

What is one "system specification" you're adding to your life this week?

#ResonantLifeOS #SelfRespect #Fediverse

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@Crissy@tech.lgbt  ·  activity timestamp 3 weeks ago

1/2 🌀 Emotional Healing & Self-Respect.

If you feel anxious, your brain tries to use thinking to fix the problem. You might know why you are stressed, but your body still feels unsafe. This is because real emotional healing needs more than just talking.

Most healing is Top-Down: we use the thinking part of the brain (the mind) to control the body. But long-term stress and trauma are kept in the body's survival parts. Your logical mind cannot tell your body to stop feeling threatened.

This morning, my lower back and right shoulder were locked up. I realised this was a deep sadness from my cat passing away. My mind accepted the loss, but my body kept the shock and sadness as a physical block.

This is why the Resonant Life OS starts with a Bottom-Up foundation. We open our awareness to let the body's wisdom lead the healing process.

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@Crissy@tech.lgbt replied  ·  activity timestamp 3 weeks ago

2/2 Somatic Healing.

My own healing started with respecting my body. After using an electric heating pad gently for safety, I followed the ALOHA Way (our 5-step method) to make repair happen:

Attunement (Kindness): I used Tea Meditation to focus my mind and treat my body's needs with kindness, not blame.

Oscillation (Agreeableness): I then did Qigong movement. This intentional movement talks directly to the nervous system. It helps release the energy of grief and trauma. It moves the feeling state from Force (tension) to Power (flow).

Lightness, Harbouring, and Allowance: The rest was about resting more, creating a safe space using a gratitude journal, and accepting that this deep processing must take its own time.

We treat the whole person—mind, body, and spirit—to build a stable, strong system.

What is one Bottom-Up practice you honour in your life? Let's talk.

#EmotionalHygiene #ResonantLifeOS #WellnessWithCrissy

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