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Crissy🐆💚
@Crissy@tech.lgbt  ·  activity timestamp 2 weeks ago

Sacred #intimacy: tantra is about presence and reverence—making love is slow, mutual, and intentional.

I believe physical intimacy works best with someone you know, respect, and genuinely like; it’s not about marriage, it’s about trust.

What if touch was a choice, not a rush?
- Look for respect: they treat you kindly and listen
- Like them first: affection and small kindnesses matter
- Take time: build trust before getting physical
- Talk openly: share boundaries and needs
- Be present: breathe, slow down, check in

This is my path, not a rule for everyone. Slowing down helped me feel safer and more connected.

If you’ve tried it, what one small sign told you it was right to go deeper?

Crissy🐆💚
@Crissy@tech.lgbt replied  ·  activity timestamp 2 weeks ago

#Tantra: practices that link breath, presence, and touch to deepen connection.

- Not just sex: it’s about attention and intention, not performance

- Core tools: breath, eye contact, slow touch, and mutual consent

Why making love feels delicious — physical side
- Slower pace heightens sensation; small touches register more
- Full‑body attention makes touch feel expansive and lingering
- Shared breathing calms the body and amplifies pleasure.

Why it feels delicious — psychological side
- Safety lets vulnerability open and deepen connection
- Presence turns moments into meaning, not just action
- Slow, attentive encounters build trust and lasting desire

Simple practices to try
- Start with breath: two minutes of synced breathing
- Use eye contact: hold gaze for 20–30 seconds
- Begin with touch that isn’t sexual: hand on heart, forearm, shoulder
- Check in: ask one honest question before moving deeper
- Keep it nonjudgmental: name a boundary and respect it

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Crissy🐆💚
@Crissy@tech.lgbt  ·  activity timestamp 2 weeks ago

🌹We often think sexuality only means sex. But it’s bigger, softer, and more sacred than that.

✨ Sexuality is energy, identity, and presence. Choosing celibacy doesn’t mean shutting desire down — it means honouring it in a new way.

You can be sensual, radiant, and creative while living celibate.

Sacred sex, seen through tantra, is not about performance but presence. It’s about breath, gaze, rhythm, and connection.

Even without touch, longing can be delicious. It can feed art, devotion, and spirit.

💫 Breathwork today reminded me: pleasure lives in presence, not performance. Even solo, the body’s delight is sacred, beyond orgasm or rush. Tantra shows us eros as meditation — each breath, each heartbeat, a union with the divine.

Let’s re‑imagine eros together — not as grind, but as energy that nourishes. If this resonates, share your own path of presence and pleasure beyond performance.

#tantra #yabyum #sacredunion

female figure sitting on a larger male buddha, kissing and embracing together in sacred union aka yab yum
female figure sitting on a larger male buddha, kissing and embracing together in sacred union aka yab yum
female figure sitting on a larger male buddha, kissing and embracing together in sacred union aka yab yum
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@buddhistdoor@mastodon.social  ·  activity timestamp 4 weeks ago

🪷 Buddhistdoor Quote for Today: Padampa Sangye (d. 1117 CE) 🪷

✨ If you first finish what you have to do, you'll never get to the Dharma; People of Tingri, while you're thinking about it, practice straight away. — Padampa Sangye (d. 1117 CE) ✨

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#Buddhism #Buddha #Dharma #Chod #Tantra #India #Tibet #Nepal #China #Compassion #Mindfulness #Meditation #Wisdom #Awakening

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@buddhistdoor@mastodon.social  ·  activity timestamp 4 weeks ago

🪷 Buddhistdoor Quote for Today: Padampa Sangye (d. 1117 CE) 🪷

✨ If you first finish what you have to do, you'll never get to the Dharma; People of Tingri, while you're thinking about it, practice straight away. — Padampa Sangye (d. 1117 CE) ✨

🔗 Explore more at BDG: buddhistdoor.net

#Buddhism #Buddha #Dharma #Chod #Tantra #India #Tibet #Nepal #China #Compassion #Mindfulness #Meditation #Wisdom #Awakening

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