RE: https://aus.social/@Dangerous_beans/114832159901637632

Unsurprisingly I'm still annoyed about this

Cuck/cukold as a negative thing is based on the idea that being a man who does not control women is shameful. That the proper way for men to relate to women is not as equals, but as owners

This comes from men controlling women's bodies for breeding. Controlling who can father children

This is obviously misogynistic language

There's also the racism that's very common in the cuckold community, which links with white genocide myths and racist's desire to control white women.

I note that my language in this post has been very cisnormative, which is not a coincidence because these attitudes are very linked in with cisnormative ideas of sex. This is a binary and hierarchical view of sex/gender

You shouldn't be using this language, and IMO men using these words is a red flag about how they will treat women

#Cuck #Misogyny

RE: https://aus.social/@Dangerous_beans/114832159901637632

Unsurprisingly I'm still annoyed about this

Cuck/cukold as a negative thing is based on the idea that being a man who does not control women is shameful. That the proper way for men to relate to women is not as equals, but as owners

This comes from men controlling women's bodies for breeding. Controlling who can father children

This is obviously misogynistic language

There's also the racism that's very common in the cuckold community, which links with white genocide myths and racist's desire to control white women.

I note that my language in this post has been very cisnormative, which is not a coincidence because these attitudes are very linked in with cisnormative ideas of sex. This is a binary and hierarchical view of sex/gender

You shouldn't be using this language, and IMO men using these words is a red flag about how they will treat women

#Cuck #Misogyny