Digital breakups: Let them go ⚖️
If someone "breaks up" with you because you did not text back fast enough? Let them go. No need to chase.
Recently, a "friend" poofed because I was offline for a week fostering a kitty and doing deep work. He said for his "mental health" he needed friends who are always there.
Reality check: You are not a phone app. You do not need to "update" daily to prove your value.
If someone cannot handle your real-world presence and seasons of silence, they are not your people. Do not waste energy apologizing for having a life of service.
The Year of the Horse is about momentum. You cannot run full speed if you are constantly stopping to comfort people upset by your boundaries. 🐎✨
Make space for friends who respect your capacity. Move on. Build your herd with people who actually breathe. 🐈⬛✨
Vibe-Check: Have you ever felt like a friend treated you like a phone app? How do you handle it when people "poof" over a few days of silence?
