Digital breakups: Let them go ⚖️

If someone "breaks up" with you because you did not text back fast enough? Let them go. No need to chase.

Recently, a "friend" poofed because I was offline for a week fostering a kitty and doing deep work. He said for his "mental health" he needed friends who are always there.

Reality check: You are not a phone app. You do not need to "update" daily to prove your value.

If someone cannot handle your real-world presence and seasons of silence, they are not your people. Do not waste energy apologizing for having a life of service.

The Year of the Horse is about momentum. You cannot run full speed if you are constantly stopping to comfort people upset by your boundaries. 🐎✨

Make space for friends who respect your capacity. Move on. Build your herd with people who actually breathe. 🐈‍⬛✨

Vibe-Check: Have you ever felt like a friend treated you like a phone app? How do you handle it when people "poof" over a few days of silence?

#SelfRespect #DigitalBoundaries #YearOfTheHorse

Posted about a beautiful vegetarian lunch with a dear friend. Because a mutual connection commented, a "Tech Bro" felt entitled to leave some unsolicited advice. I didn't argue. I didn't engage the Conflict Loop. I simply deleted.

As a pescatarian, I value food that grounds my system. I don't need external "Data" on how to eat or live from people who don't know me.

Unsolicited advice is actually a sign of low emotional hygiene. It shows a lack of System Awareness: the person is trying to override your experience to satisfy their own need for control.

Boundary Calibration: Deleting a comment is a high-value act of Self-Respect.

Energy Filtering: You don't owe anyone your Circuitry just because they are connected to a mutual on a professional networking platform.

It is also absolutely ok to block if people are disrespectful. It is Silent Power: A hard block is the best firewall against entitlement.

I’m keep my digital space as clean and grounded as that mushroom pizza!

#SelfRespect #DigitalBoundaries