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@Crissy@tech.lgbt  ·  activity timestamp 5 hours ago

Posted about a beautiful vegetarian lunch with a dear friend. Because a mutual connection commented, a "Tech Bro" felt entitled to leave some unsolicited advice. I didn't argue. I didn't engage the Conflict Loop. I simply deleted.

As a pescatarian, I value food that grounds my system. I don't need external "Data" on how to eat or live from people who don't know me.

Unsolicited advice is actually a sign of low emotional hygiene. It shows a lack of System Awareness: the person is trying to override your experience to satisfy their own need for control.

Boundary Calibration: Deleting a comment is a high-value act of Self-Respect.

Energy Filtering: You don't owe anyone your Circuitry just because they are connected to a mutual on a professional networking platform.

It is also absolutely ok to block if people are disrespectful. It is Silent Power: A hard block is the best firewall against entitlement.

I’m keep my digital space as clean and grounded as that mushroom pizza!

#SelfRespect #DigitalBoundaries

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