1/2 Fighting for attention or running away? You are in the Anxious-Avoidant Trap.
Attachment styles are energy geometry. Connections form a system. Avoidant attachment creates a flawed system, causing pain.
2 main types:
1. Dismissive Avoidant (DA): Fears closeness. Demands rigid independence/distance.
2. Anxious-Preoccupied (AP): Fears abandonment. Demands closeness, ignores boundaries.
When these meet, it is the Avoidant Trap—painful push and pull.
My lesson was hard. A Dismissive Avoidant ex traded my integrity for his comfort: "pocketing" me. His distance forced my energetic contraction. This betrayal created a massive Time Fracture—residue pain.
It doesn't matter why. The pattern violates your Self-Respect. It starves your system, forcing you to trade worth for validation.
The only way out: Fix your system’s geometry, not them.
⬇️ Solution below ⬇️