since i know a lot of former #calyxos users are reasonably considering switching to #grapheneos (or already have), here are some tips for navigating their community:
* never question project leadership.
* never question security or privacy features or implementations.
* do not associate with any projects or individuals that they hate-stalk around the internet.
* no criticism, even constructive.
* make peace with the potential for baseless accusations and smears.

these tips also useful for oems. 💕