i penned a piece on Relationship Anarchy for Harbour, the lovely collection of essays, short stories and poetry put together by @scrappy_capy_distro
https://en.scrappycapydistro.info/harbour
@Hex and @clockwooork have their own contributions in this issue
"It was never about time. Scheduling can never be equal. Nor should it. Desire can’t be measured in seconds. Or centimeters. Longing doesn’t care about your calendar."
@catileptic What a great piece of writing!
@neil thank you 😊 i really appreciate knowing how it landed for you
@catileptic It is something about which I know absolutely nothing - I have only ever been in monogamous relationships - so it is particularly interesting!
@neil relationship anarchy (the way i conceptualize it) doesn't have anything to say about sexual / emotional exclusivity or how many partners one has
i wrote two longer essays about it, one introductory one that tries to situate it in a socio-political context https://catileptic.tech/posts/relationship-anarchy/ and one in which i give a simple definition for RA and look at how that definition can be applied to technologies (in the widest sense) https://catileptic.tech/posts/relationship-anarchy-technology/
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