"It's unreasonable to demand that these extremely vulnerable peoples form committees"
My apologies, that is absolutely not what I was trying to say at all, I've tried to edit the original post to make it clearer.
I was trying to say: FOSS projects have to prioritise due to lots of work, lots of issues and no resources. If vulnerable people are affecting how things are prioritised (either by being devs themselves or listened to by devs) then that could make safety features better.