@DoomsdaysCW absolutely me too. I hardly noticed when involved in some fun direct action. I was lucky that way! I had some follow up issues and would never diminish or discount difficult experiences for others. But thinking in evolutionary terms can give a very positive spin which itself alone may be very supportive. Let's take a look at those whales, what are they up to? If you've been with Hadza grandmothers, you're gobsmacked by their levels of activity, confidence and expertise. It isn't uniform among hunter-gatherers, there are groups such as the Agta, where women don't often live so long. Demographic variability.