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Ms. Que Banh
Ms. Que Banh
@PhoenixSerenity@beige.party  ·  activity timestamp 2 weeks ago

Look - I've only been on Mastodon/Fediverse since 2022. I'm a non-techy person who has been perpetually online since early 90s. There's never been a fully safe space for an outspoken, disabled POC person like me - in any online community. Even going back to Usenet days - I was a minority. Every single SM I've been on has been majority white folks. Same with the Fedi. We need more diversity everywhere - online & offline.

I'm not leaving this platform due to being a minority. I'm staying & will fight for my presence & for fellow marginalized POC presences. I have always had to fight, almost my entire life - for space & to be included as a visibly disabled POC woman who is loud as heck with issues close to my heart & soul.

I can't remember when I didn't have to fight for that. My experiences here now are vastly different than in 2022. I still get some racist jerks who do their cowardly racist shit. I'm not letting those racist fuckers run me off here. FUCK THEM. I'm staying & they can go fuck off.

#POCVoices #PeopleWithDisabilities #MarginalizedVoices #WomenOfTheResistance #POCWomen #FuckRacism #NotLeaving

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Ms. Que Banh
Ms. Que Banh
@PhoenixSerenity@beige.party replied  ·  activity timestamp 2 weeks ago

When entering & choosing to stay in online community spaces - where I'm always the marginalized minority - I don't ask to make room for POC. I will make room, for myself & with other equally stubborn & fiercely forward POC folks. I don't ask for permission to push forward. I won't complain without putting in work to push back & make diversity happen. I'm not built to sit, bitch about injustices & do nothing to counter.

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Perplexed by Joy :v_bi:
Perplexed by Joy :v_bi:
@farah@beige.party replied  ·  activity timestamp 2 weeks ago

@PhoenixSerenity Heck yeah! FWIW, you’re a force to be reckoned with and it’s been an absolute pleasure to meet you online 💕

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Ms. Que Banh
Ms. Que Banh
@PhoenixSerenity@beige.party replied  ·  activity timestamp 2 weeks ago

@farah Thanks for "getting me" 💗

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Ms. Que Banh
Ms. Que Banh
@PhoenixSerenity@beige.party replied  ·  activity timestamp 2 weeks ago

Y'all are fucking stuck with me. Best learn to embrace & enjoy that fact. I'll be constantly encouraging folks to do better in regards to decolonizing their own minds. I'm committed to fighting for BIPOC spaces & will keep pushing my way forward to make it happen. I appreciate comrades & fellow POC folks - in the same progressive change boats, paddling hard.

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