Direct application of the 'Easy Wins' from my recent Scaling Respect + Consent on the Fediverse infographic. (Context: https://tech.lgbt/@Crissy/115647862289071322)

Misogyny isn't just poor communication; it's a Systemic Failure that violates the Principle of Trust. We fix it by moving from Corrupted Code (Force) to Clean Code (Power).

Scenario: A woman declines a nude request. The man sends one anyway (unsolicited). She declines to send her own. The man replies:

❌ Corrupted Code (Force):
"Okay, but you need to send me one back now. It's only fair." (This assumes entitlement and ignores consent.)

✅ Clean Code (Power):
"My apologies, sending that was out of line. I should have respected your initial 'no.' I respect your boundaries entirely." (This affirms integrity.)

The difference? The second message rebuilds trust. What boundary can you clearly state today?

#ConsentCulture #SystemsLeadership #CleanCode #Fediverse

🛠️ Systems Leadership: Integrity Check

This is a direct application of the 'Easy Wins' from my recent Scaling Respect + Consent on the Fediverse infographic. (Context: https://tech.lgbt/@Crissy/115647862289071322)

Misogyny isn't just poor communication; it's a Systemic Failure that violates the Principle of Trust. We fix it by moving from Corrupted Code (Force) to Clean Code (Power).

Scenario: After a sext, a nude photo request is declined. The man replies 1 of 2 ways to a woman he met on a dating site:

❌ Corrupted Code (Force): "You know you want it, don't pretend you don't." (This attempts to force compliance.)

✅ Clean Code (Power): "I understand. I appreciate the sext, and I completely respect your choice not to send photos. How about we stick to that?" (This affirms the boundary.)

The difference? The second message builds trust. What boundary can you clearly state today?

#ConsentCulture #SystemsLeadership #CleanCode #Fediverse

@Crissy that is so good

For full context, you can read https://tech.lgbt/@Crissy/115647862289071322

with thanks to public discourse with @AdaraAstin
@KrajciTom

#ConsentCulture #FediverseScaling #RespectOnline