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@Crissy@tech.lgbt  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago

Scaling Respect + Consent on the Fediverse!

Designed this infographic to map out practical steps—from easy wins to high-impact shifts—for building a kinder, more respectful online community.

It’s about intentional architecture for digital spaces. Let’s move beyond just wishing for better interactions and start actively building them.

Check out the solutions ranked by realism:
💡 Easy Wins
⚙️ Mid-Level Success
⛰️ Harder but High Impact
*typo: Mid level success, 2nd line is supposed to be "peer accountability"
Also: last point heading: “amplify role models, hold peers accountable”

What step are you taking today? [Image Attached]

#ConsentCulture #FediverseScaling #RespectOnline

Infographic titled 'Scaling Respect + Consent on the Fediverse: Solutions ranked by realism (easy → hard)'. It shows three sections: 💡 Easy Wins, including 'Share experiences openly,' 'Thank respectful men,' 'Teach dirty talk vs. misogyny,' 'Consent memes: No is a full sentence,' 'Include bi/queer voices.' ⚙️ Mid-Level Success, including 'Amplify role models (Keanu, Mr. Rogers, Tennant),' 'Peer accountability: men screen each other’s messages,' 'Pin/circulate threads,' 'Bridge online + IRL (panels, meetups).' ⛰️ Harder but High Impact, including 'Perspective swaps (avatar/gender/race experiments),' 'Federated moderation codes of conduct,' 'Scaling by repetition: keep discourse alive.' The footer CTA is '👉 Share stories, amplify role models, hold peers accountable.' Hashtags: #ConsentCulture #FediverseScaling #RespectOnline."
Infographic titled 'Scaling Respect + Consent on the Fediverse: Solutions ranked by realism (easy → hard)'. It shows three sections: 💡 Easy Wins, including 'Share experiences openly,' 'Thank respectful men,' 'Teach dirty talk vs. misogyny,' 'Consent memes: No is a full sentence,' 'Include bi/queer voices.' ⚙️ Mid-Level Success, including 'Amplify role models (Keanu, Mr. Rogers, Tennant),' 'Peer accountability: men screen each other’s messages,' 'Pin/circulate threads,' 'Bridge online + IRL (panels, meetups).' ⛰️ Harder but High Impact, including 'Perspective swaps (avatar/gender/race experiments),' 'Federated moderation codes of conduct,' 'Scaling by repetition: keep discourse alive.' The footer CTA is '👉 Share stories, amplify role models, hold peers accountable.' Hashtags: #ConsentCulture #FediverseScaling #RespectOnline."
Infographic titled 'Scaling Respect + Consent on the Fediverse: Solutions ranked by realism (easy → hard)'. It shows three sections: 💡 Easy Wins, including 'Share experiences openly,' 'Thank respectful men,' 'Teach dirty talk vs. misogyny,' 'Consent memes: No is a full sentence,' 'Include bi/queer voices.' ⚙️ Mid-Level Success, including 'Amplify role models (Keanu, Mr. Rogers, Tennant),' 'Peer accountability: men screen each other’s messages,' 'Pin/circulate threads,' 'Bridge online + IRL (panels, meetups).' ⛰️ Harder but High Impact, including 'Perspective swaps (avatar/gender/race experiments),' 'Federated moderation codes of conduct,' 'Scaling by repetition: keep discourse alive.' The footer CTA is '👉 Share stories, amplify role models, hold peers accountable.' Hashtags: #ConsentCulture #FediverseScaling #RespectOnline."
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@Crissy@tech.lgbt replied  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago

For full context, you can read https://tech.lgbt/@Crissy/115647862289071322

with thanks to public discourse with @AdaraAstin
@KrajciTom

#ConsentCulture #FediverseScaling #RespectOnline

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@Crissy@tech.lgbt  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago

Scaling Respect + Consent on the Fediverse!

Designed this infographic to map out practical steps—from easy wins to high-impact shifts—for building a kinder, more respectful online community.

It’s about intentional architecture for digital spaces. Let’s move beyond just wishing for better interactions and start actively building them.

Check out the solutions ranked by realism:
💡 Easy Wins
⚙️ Mid-Level Success
⛰️ Harder but High Impact
*typo: Mid level success, 2nd line is supposed to be "peer accountability"
Also: last point heading: “amplify role models, hold peers accountable”

What step are you taking today? [Image Attached]

#ConsentCulture #FediverseScaling #RespectOnline

Infographic titled 'Scaling Respect + Consent on the Fediverse: Solutions ranked by realism (easy → hard)'. It shows three sections: 💡 Easy Wins, including 'Share experiences openly,' 'Thank respectful men,' 'Teach dirty talk vs. misogyny,' 'Consent memes: No is a full sentence,' 'Include bi/queer voices.' ⚙️ Mid-Level Success, including 'Amplify role models (Keanu, Mr. Rogers, Tennant),' 'Peer accountability: men screen each other’s messages,' 'Pin/circulate threads,' 'Bridge online + IRL (panels, meetups).' ⛰️ Harder but High Impact, including 'Perspective swaps (avatar/gender/race experiments),' 'Federated moderation codes of conduct,' 'Scaling by repetition: keep discourse alive.' The footer CTA is '👉 Share stories, amplify role models, hold peers accountable.' Hashtags: #ConsentCulture #FediverseScaling #RespectOnline."
Infographic titled 'Scaling Respect + Consent on the Fediverse: Solutions ranked by realism (easy → hard)'. It shows three sections: 💡 Easy Wins, including 'Share experiences openly,' 'Thank respectful men,' 'Teach dirty talk vs. misogyny,' 'Consent memes: No is a full sentence,' 'Include bi/queer voices.' ⚙️ Mid-Level Success, including 'Amplify role models (Keanu, Mr. Rogers, Tennant),' 'Peer accountability: men screen each other’s messages,' 'Pin/circulate threads,' 'Bridge online + IRL (panels, meetups).' ⛰️ Harder but High Impact, including 'Perspective swaps (avatar/gender/race experiments),' 'Federated moderation codes of conduct,' 'Scaling by repetition: keep discourse alive.' The footer CTA is '👉 Share stories, amplify role models, hold peers accountable.' Hashtags: #ConsentCulture #FediverseScaling #RespectOnline."
Infographic titled 'Scaling Respect + Consent on the Fediverse: Solutions ranked by realism (easy → hard)'. It shows three sections: 💡 Easy Wins, including 'Share experiences openly,' 'Thank respectful men,' 'Teach dirty talk vs. misogyny,' 'Consent memes: No is a full sentence,' 'Include bi/queer voices.' ⚙️ Mid-Level Success, including 'Amplify role models (Keanu, Mr. Rogers, Tennant),' 'Peer accountability: men screen each other’s messages,' 'Pin/circulate threads,' 'Bridge online + IRL (panels, meetups).' ⛰️ Harder but High Impact, including 'Perspective swaps (avatar/gender/race experiments),' 'Federated moderation codes of conduct,' 'Scaling by repetition: keep discourse alive.' The footer CTA is '👉 Share stories, amplify role models, hold peers accountable.' Hashtags: #ConsentCulture #FediverseScaling #RespectOnline."
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@Crissy@tech.lgbt  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago

🧵2of3 — Mid‑Level Success
Takes more effort but achievable:
- Role model amplification → elevate healthy figures (Keanu, Mr. Rogers, Tennant)

- Peer accountability → men screen each other’s messages; reflection sparks change

- Conversation anchors → pin threads, create collections, circulate across instances

- IRL + online bridge → panels, workshops, meetups that mirror Fediverse discourse (I can bring this topic up at my #FediCollective IRL Fediverse Club coffee chats monthly for more solutions/suggestions)

Harder but High Impact
Challenging but transformative if scaled:
- Perspective swaps → avatar/gender/race identity experiments to reveal treatment differences

- Federated moderation → instances adopt codes of conduct emphasizing consent/respect

- Scaling by repetition → keep discourse alive; every retelling educates new audiences

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@Crissy@tech.lgbt replied  ·  activity timestamp 2 months ago

🧵 3of3 — Summary/ TL;DR
Solutions ranked by realism (easy → hard):
- Easy wins: share experiences, thank respectful men, teach “dirty talk vs. misogyny,” push consent memes, include bi/queer voices

- Mid‑level: amplify role models, peer accountability, pin/circulate threads, bridge online + IRL

- Harder lifts: avatar/gender swaps, federated moderation codes, keep repeating discourse

👉Share our stories, amplify good role models, hold peers accountable. Culture shifts when we keep showing up.

This ranking (easy → hard) helps us focus energy where success is most realistic, while still aiming for systemic change.

The Fediverse thrives on community norms, not corporate algorithms — so scaling respect and consent is about culture itself.

Every post adds weight. Let’s scale respect + consent together.

#ConsentCulture #FediverseScaling #RespectOnline

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