@oblomov hahaha that poll you link to in that post is totally on brand for fedi 🤣 "Oppression olympics" is a thing here as everywhere ... in any given case it's hard to know how much is specifically being triggered and amplfied intentionally by people trying to drive wedges, and how much is just the systemic aspects -- cis white male ablist heteropatriarchy reinforcing itself.
Agreed about the dynamics of ego-inflated clout-chasing VIPs complaining about Mastodon. IMCTOF I had muted them all (and unsurprisingly they aren't the people I've talked to about why they didn't stay) so can certainly believe that they were complaining about QTs. It'd be interesting to know the timing; "Whiteness of Mastodon" talked about QTs in miid-to-late November 2022.
It's complex. On the one hand I see it as good that the cis white clout chasers didn't stay in fedi (even though it meatn that I had to once again mute them on Bluesky). Antibodies FTW! On the other hand, some of the functionality that they pointed to is valuable for others as well, and I think there was a tendency to resist it as something that only VIPs care about (as opposed to looking at the underlying needs and figuring out how to support them in ways that fit in well with the anti-clout ethos).