In 2015, Username “stimmyabby” posted the following on Tumblr: Sometimes people use "respect" to mean "treating someone like a person" and sometimes they use “respect” to mean “treating someone like an authority" and sometime people who are used to being treated like an authority say "if you won't respect me I won't respect you” and they mean "if you won't treat me like an authority I won’t treat you like a person” and they think they’re being fair but they aren’t, and it’s not okay. —- Username “do-as-youre-told” then replies: This is so well put I am stunned —- Found via Soycrates, who documented and preserved the post using wizardofthevoid-deactivated2018. OP deleted all of their posts and person who replied deleted their account. Soycrates’ account went inactive in 2019.