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@nullagent@partyon.xyz  ·  activity timestamp 3 weeks ago

Who doesn't love parenting exchanges that involve disgruntled ex-boyfriends being invited and then trying to provoke a fight and getting dragged away by cops /s

Like I said, some people need you angry, couldn't be me.

Loving my life, chasing babies and hacking the planet.

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@nullagent@partyon.xyz  ·  activity timestamp 2 weeks ago

Hey good news, the tiny human and I found a long term housing situation with a family with a big spare room.

Can you help us make more progress on our fundraiser so we can move this month?

$500 / $2000

Casapp/venmo/paypal $nullagent

https://chuffed.org/project/145522-help-falsely-accused-black-dad-get-back-on-his-feet

#MutualAidRequest #ParentingWhileBlack #BlackMastodon #BlackDadsMatter #Housing #HelpFolksLive2026

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Help falsely accused Black dad get back on his feet

Earlier this summer I was falsely accused of domestic violence and instantly made homeless and unable to see my daughter. Thankfully after three months of court I was found innocent and my accuser was scolded by multiple judges for repeatedly lying.Despite being found innocent of any wrong doing I still face massive legal costs.So far I've been billed over $15k! I'm very fortunate to have had a lawyer who worked tirelessly to protect my rights but I've paid the majority of the legal bill out of pocket, completely depleting my rainy day funds.Donations will help my stablize my life by staying on top of these legal bills, saving up for a new apartment and having money on hand to take care of my daughter.
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@nullagent@partyon.xyz  ·  activity timestamp 2 weeks ago

Loving the reshares and words of support but sadly it'd be nice to make progress on our fundraiser sooner rather than later so we can de-stress.

Lately I've got the tiny human 50/50 after the courts threw out my counterparts false claims now THREE times.

I've been facing a ton of online and in-person harassment from my ex's mob of vigilantes, cops & courts have had to be involved and the legal situation is rather active.

$500 / $2000

Casapp/venmo/paypal $nullagent
#ParentingWhileBlack

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@nullagent@partyon.xyz  ·  activity timestamp 2 weeks ago

On the court watch side we're due back in court in a couple days.

My counter part is attempting to make the case that I have too much time with my daughter too quickly.

As usual this is a huge waste of legal fees & court resources bc the judge ALREADY ruled above. The judge was clear to note that my ex ILLEGALLY withheld my child for 3 months (for a total of 6mo of withholding).

THAT is why he had the accelerated transition, those 3mo were supposed to be the rampup.

https://partyon.xyz/@nullagent/115990970614724029

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@nullagent@partyon.xyz  ·  activity timestamp 2 weeks ago

Of the MANY unnecessary costs that suddenly become needed when you have a high conflict co-parent are things like court ordered parenting apps.

Things like that cost $200+/year just to have a court approved monitor so when my ex sends harassing texts at 7am they go to the court at the same time.

Services like this are why I need to urgently raise funds.

My ex regularly sends harassing messages and I'd really love to be able to have formal record of these.

$500 / $2000

#MutualAidRequest

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@nullagent@partyon.xyz  ·  activity timestamp 2 weeks ago

Damn, shit hit the fan today. My lawyer is not able to put further fees on our tab, the owners of the firm would like to see some of the $15k of legal debt paid down immediately.

My lawyer had been fighting management to not take further payment until the fall but with how MUCH legal services my ex has created its understandable.

IF you're able to make large donations over $500 please DM me so you can pay the lawyer directly.

Please direct legal aid donations to GFM👇🏿

https://gofund.me/c0e9a9cbb

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