My wife and I do lots of BBC crime, and we've been pleased with a show called "New Tricks", which is short-arc cold-case murder dramedy. It has the most awful theme song, but it's charming, and one can come rather quickly to feel affection for the characters.
There's this character, Brian (the great Alun Armstrong), and he's some kind of aging neuro-diverse uber-dork. And he's married. And his wife is the absolute *epitome* of "long-suffering".
I think my wife identifies with her strongly.