@tinker
OSs are like any tool. better or optimized for some things more than others. i have used several linux distros, freebsd, etc. depending on the task.
the systemd overreach has already pushed me off some linux distros. AI slop in the kernel will push me off others.
i think you're spot on that we all need to be a bit patient with newcomers not getting some of the technical and cultural biases that various OSs are more suitable for, and go into education and evangelism, not abuse and disdain.
this is also a good opportunity to really talk about what your project goals, philosophies, and prime use cases are, along with explicitly talking about AI use, license types, etc. we all tend to avoid these but it's good to really review every few years to allow for mission, code, and reality creep.