Recommend that you avoid victim blaming in the process of demanding moral perfection from people in impossible circumstances.
If you find that this is impossible? Well
Maybe try a different tactic
@jenniferplusplus But then you'd have to acknowledge that there (gasp) may be systemic issues that individuals cannot possibly address and (scream) consider where the true culpability lies and (faint) actually offer help instead of harm.
Madness, right?
@ricko yes, but desperate times and all that
