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@alice so I sort of have the opposite problem, people (mostly men) often assume I'm flirting when I'm not because I am often sincerely interested in what people are talking about and ask lots of questions, and even if I'm not actually interested as someone who is surprisingly shy in real life and very much on the "please do not perceive me" end of the spectrum I learnt quite early on that you can divert someone's attention from you by asking about them. Any tips for not accidentally giving people the impression that you want to play Jenga without hurting their feelings or making them angry?