Is there a way to fundraise for my surgery without doxing myself? I would prefer not to give out my full real name to do a GoFundMe since I do have haters because of EG and I'd rather not have to expose myself to being doxed because I need to afford surgery ):
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i personally always found the "real name" stuff to be annoying online b/c like more people know me as "Ami Angelwings" than as any other name tbh, and I've been "Ami Angelwings" longer than I've even had my legal name
and I've never not been Ami Angelwings, it's more consistent than my RL name tbh (of which I have like a Chinese name and a middle name that I sometimes go by), so people who are like "you're hiding behind a disposable screen name!" no I'm not, like you can find everything you want about my entire internet history under Ami Angelwings, the only reason to know my real name is to hurt me
@ami_angelwings It would be a much better society if it were understood that parents were only naming babies provisionally, until they were old enough to name themselves, and it were accepted as a normal thing for people to rename themselves at various milestones in their lives. Also that kids could tentatively experiment with gender identities without needing a driver's license and mortgage to certify they were "mature enough," and it wasn't considered some kind of earth-shattering occurrence.
