@LDJ
I'm genuinely interested in this, as am surrounded by family and friends who are currently going through it. I'm always happy to chat and suppose I've got a bit of experience of the view from a male partner perspective.
I'm on the fly a bit today but will point you towards some of my previous chats that people have kindly responded to and we can pick it up again later if OK. ❤️
Short version is don't worry - you're among many other women going through the same thing and there is a tremendous amount of support and sense of community about it. Like I say - will respond properly later. 😊
https://beige.party/@TheBreadmonkey/111676029615765941
https://beige.party/@TheBreadmonkey/112008339972188037
https://beige.party/@TheBreadmonkey/113727275453328554
https://beige.party/@TheBreadmonkey/115130921617895830
https://beige.party/@TheBreadmonkey/115204529040732082