@JustinMac84 I don't know if it's any comfort, but realistically we are probably years away from any sort of reply controls in Mastodon.
There are more ideas to think about, such as reputation-based models (someone who's been a jackass before is more likely to be a jackass again), maybe a karma system like you see on reddit, or better personal filters. They all have pitfalls, but could be worth exploring. It's the fediverse, so it's largely a matter of who's willing to put work into it.