@neil I am with this up to the point when advocates for these alternative services (as is depressingly common) start getting upset more people don't use them, or blaming users for not doing so.
It's one thing to not want to respond to random demands as a volunteer, it's another entirely to not listen to user feedback and then get upset that people prefer something that works better for their purposes. (See the frequent discussions on here about how people sacrifice privacy for "convenience" on here - yes, people don't want to be inconvenienced! That is not their problem, it's the software developers'!)