I wasn't planning to talk about irc but since so many people are going "weeee, time for IRC!!!!"...
first off: I, like many others, still have some IRC going. 2 decades and a bit.
there's a reason most people glommed onto discord so extremely rapidly. and anyone not acknowledging that reason is ill prepared for the ensuing conversation
this reason, idly, is shaped the same as why so many people rapidly took up irccloud as their primary irc client when that first came about