Man, all I'm asking is for people to think some of the shit they say through. Millions of people didn't go to the gas chambers because they weren't civil enough, or didn't love hard enough. Just you know, if talking like a live laugh love poster coulda stopped Hitler, I think someone woulda tried it and stopped Hitler.
I'm not trying to tell you what to do, I'm just saying you gonna need to develop a strategy that goes beyond warm squishies and universal platitudes.