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Ben
@TheBreadmonkey@beige.party  ·  activity timestamp 3 hours ago

There's a guy in my running club I've only communicated with once but over the group messages to other people, I have decided we should be good friends. How do I do that without being weird? Hello yes I'm Ben you remember me from that conversation last summer we are now best friends I'm sorry you do not have a choice now get in the van.

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Darth Hideout 🏳️‍🌈
Darth Hideout 🏳️‍🌈
@darth_hideout@mas.to replied  ·  activity timestamp 2 hours ago

@TheBreadmonkey Plan something around something you have a mutual interest in? (I realize constructive suggestions seem to be at odds with most of the other replies. 🤷)

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Helena
Helena
@Hellybootwader@mastodon.scot replied  ·  activity timestamp 2 hours ago

@TheBreadmonkey do you see them in person? You could pretend that you are already friends and just chat to them like it was the plan all along.

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Slab Bulkhead
Slab Bulkhead
@slab_bulkhead@mastodon.online replied  ·  activity timestamp 3 hours ago

@TheBreadmonkey Thanks to @dillyd for this this timeline serendipity...

A screenshot of my Mastodon timeline with the post from this thread that reads "I SAID WE ARE NOW BEST FRIENDS NOW GET IN" immediately followed by a post with a picture of two cats, one somewhat aggressively licking the other one in a way that suggests it doesn't have a say in the matter. Both posts were boosted by @dillyd.
A screenshot of my Mastodon timeline with the post from this thread that reads "I SAID WE ARE NOW BEST FRIENDS NOW GET IN" immediately followed by a post with a picture of two cats, one somewhat aggressively licking the other one in a way that suggests it doesn't have a say in the matter. Both posts were boosted by @dillyd.
A screenshot of my Mastodon timeline with the post from this thread that reads "I SAID WE ARE NOW BEST FRIENDS NOW GET IN" immediately followed by a post with a picture of two cats, one somewhat aggressively licking the other one in a way that suggests it doesn't have a say in the matter. Both posts were boosted by @dillyd.
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dillyd
dillyd
@dillyd@turtleisland.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 3 hours ago

@slab_bulkhead @TheBreadmonkey
"How do I do that without being weird?"
Lick him!

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Paul Drye
Paul Drye
@pauldrye@spacey.space replied  ·  activity timestamp 3 hours ago

@TheBreadmonkey

Mr. Lovenstein cartoon depicting "How to Make Friends as an Adult": lurking in the bushes, leaping and latching to then, never letting go. Last panel shows the latchee lying in bed with the bush-leaper still clinging to their leg, then the former saying "sigh...wanna play Mario Kart?"

Success!
Mr. Lovenstein cartoon depicting "How to Make Friends as an Adult": lurking in the bushes, leaping and latching to then, never letting go. Last panel shows the latchee lying in bed with the bush-leaper still clinging to their leg, then the former saying "sigh...wanna play Mario Kart?" Success!
Mr. Lovenstein cartoon depicting "How to Make Friends as an Adult": lurking in the bushes, leaping and latching to then, never letting go. Last panel shows the latchee lying in bed with the bush-leaper still clinging to their leg, then the former saying "sigh...wanna play Mario Kart?" Success!
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Morten Grøftehauge
Morten Grøftehauge
@drgroftehauge@sigmoid.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 3 hours ago

@TheBreadmonkey Ben has a crush!

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acm
@acm_redfox@jawns.club replied  ·  activity timestamp 3 hours ago

@TheBreadmonkey adult friend-making requires a little stepping outside. grab a beer? talk about the group thing?

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Ann T. Phở
Ann T. Phở
@DrSaucy@sfba.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 3 hours ago

@TheBreadmonkey Can you let me know if that works? Making new friends at my ripe old age is proving challenging.

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Ben
Ben
@TheBreadmonkey@beige.party replied  ·  activity timestamp 3 hours ago

I SAID WE ARE NOW BEST FRIENDS GET IN

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Nuclear Oatmeal
Nuclear Oatmeal
@NuclearOatmeal@beige.party replied  ·  activity timestamp 3 hours ago

@TheBreadmonkey

Close. You guys present an initial token.

DO YOU LIKE CHEESE? THIS IS CHEESE. I WILL SHARE SOME OF THIS CHEESE WITH YOU. DO YOU WANT SOME CHEESE?

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John Maxwell
John Maxwell
@jmax@mastodon.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 3 hours ago

@TheBreadmonkey There's no room!

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Jenica Lake
Jenica Lake
@MamaLake@beige.party replied  ·  activity timestamp 3 hours ago

@TheBreadmonkey bring a puppy, as a gift.

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Ben
Ben
@TheBreadmonkey@beige.party replied  ·  activity timestamp 3 hours ago

@MamaLake

Always do

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