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Mark Connolly 🍻 🚴🏼‍♀️ (he, him, his)
Mark Connolly 🍻 🚴🏼‍♀️ (he, him, his)
@uxmark@mstdn.ca  ·  activity timestamp yesterday

I’ve been thinking these days about ableist language, and have been trying to excise it from my writing.

I’d long ago eliminated words like “crazy” and “insane”, and words that describe someone's physical appearance in a pejorative way. More recently, I’ve been addressing words like “stupid” and “moron” (HT @meganL).

What I’ve learned is that changing isn’t really that hard to do once I’m aware of which words are hurtful to other groups of people. And over time I’ve built up a simple list, roughly grouped, to remind me of better alternatives. What other words do folks here favour?

• ill-judged, ill-conceived, ill-considered, shambolic, chaotic, haphazard, careless, feckless

• shallow, unserious, frivolous, simplistic, uninformed, callow

• dishonest , disingenuous, deceitful, duplicitous

• hateful, mean-spirited, selfish, thoughtless, petty

• parasitic, anti-social, selfish

• malicious, vicious, cruel, vindictive, dangerous

• toxic, venomous, poisonous

#ableism #language

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Johanna, CanCon variety
Johanna, CanCon variety
@johannab@cosocial.ca replied  ·  activity timestamp yesterday

@uxmark @meganL thanks for this. It’s something I try to be mindful of as well, though I find there’s still a need for commonly- understood vernacular depending on audience.

I do a little more analysis sometimes and consider using less refined words where context/vocabulary might not be as shared. Sort of like swearing strategically, while trying to eliminate casual f-bomb at the dinner table.

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Johanna, CanCon variety
Johanna, CanCon variety
@johannab@cosocial.ca replied  ·  activity timestamp yesterday

@uxmark @meganL

My thoughts also run to , any time I’m tempted to apply a pejorative, is it is applied only to a thing, concept, idea, action … not to a person.

Still fail sometimes when trying to describe a person who has made an entire life’s work of reprehensible behaviour, but at least when I resort to something inappropriate for broader discourse, I have consciously decided to scorch some earth and accept consequences.

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