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2of3 💖 This next part is about keeping your internal compass straight—it's the inner work that keeps you well:

6. Listening not Leading: Understand people first, then talk

7. Depth not Delivery: Value substance over speed

8. Compassion not Competition: Choose kindness over rivalry

Let's look at numbers 6 and 7. "Listening not Leading" means truly hearing a friend's problem before jumping in with advice.

"Depth not Delivery" means making one amazing thing instead of ten rushed ones.

These choices are hard because society wants you to hustle. But choosing the Tides means choosing quiet power and integrity.

The last 2 Tides are next in Thread 3! 👇

Star Kitty 🌷

@Crissy@tech.lgbt replied · 4 weeks ago

2of3 💖 This next part is about keeping your internal compass straight—it's the inner work that keeps you well:

6. Listening not Leading: Understand people first, then talk

7. Depth not Delivery: Value substance over speed

8. Compassion not Competition: Choose kindness over rivalry

Let's look at numbers 6 and 7. "Listening not Leading" means truly hearing a friend's problem before jumping in with advice.

"Depth not Delivery" means making one amazing thing instead of ten rushed ones.

These choices are hard because society wants you to hustle. But choosing the Tides means choosing quiet power and integrity.

The last 2 Tides are next in Thread 3! 👇

Star Kitty 🌷

@Crissy@tech.lgbt replied · 4 weeks ago

3of3 💖Here are the final, essential Tides. These are the biggest choices for true peace and lasting work:

9. Care not Consumption: Nurture your relationships, don't just take from them

10. Integrity not Innovation: Stick to your ethics, even if a trendy "new" thing promises fast cash

That's the whole Tides list. Integrity always lasts longer than the trend.

Question for You: Look at your to-do list right now. If you had to drop 3 items from it to instantly prioritize one item from the Tides list (1-10), what 3 are you dropping, and which Tide are you choosing? LMK.

#TargetTheTides #WellnessStrategy #PurposeDriven

Star Kitty 🌷

@Crissy@tech.lgbt replied · 4 weeks ago

Sound of The Tides 💖

I adore Fourplay's "I'll Still Be Loving You" because I get an eargasm every time. To me, it's literally the sound of calm clarity.

1. Sonic Luxury: The smooth jazz arrangement is perfect. It uses warm chords and clean bass lines, giving your brain comfort. No abrasive sounds, only a feeling of sonic ease.

2. The Tempo of Calm: It matches a relaxed heart rate. This tempo reduces stress and promotes the deep focus we need to choose the "Tides." It sounds patient, not rushed.

3. Tides Vibe: It resonates with my core values—pure devotion, trust, and consistency. It feels like the steady, non-urgent motion of a deep ocean tide.

It's the perfect soundtrack for choosing depth over delivery.

What music gets you into that flow state?

Listen here https://youtu.be/0F3Qp0d_DJUCz5h17UvP8W4hKln

#MusicAnalysis #music #lovesongs #romantic