It’s been a day, I’ve been driving a van moving the youngest across town to his first rental, thinking about all the families everywhere holding together in terrible circumstances through real loss. We’re humans, we love in clans and kin, born and chosen, and we can’t all live together always. Also, in all the hefting of furniture my finger got between a heavy thing and a van door, and now I’m watching cricket in my empty nest listening to music and my fingernail is throbbing, and I’m dreaming of #vanlife.