As it's 20 years since my father died, after a year of him and my mother trying to squeeze into a year as much as they could of what they'd planned for post-retirement decades, a reminder to all - carpe diem: don't let prudence for the future stop you enjoying the things now. Drink the good wine, take up that hobby, meet that friend or relative, go to that place. There's an awful lot of shit happens in the world, and you never know what's around the corner.

Also #FuckCancer