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> I still have FB and IG, but I'm barely active on one and Friendica might have me abandoning it
FB is the most difficult nut to crack. I've written a bit about why here;
https://disintermedia.net.nz/farcebook-one-thing-to-rule-them/
... but I plan to go into more detail at some point.
But basically, at present, to replace all its features, you need elements of both ActivityPub software (public messages and media-sharing, event invites) and Matrix software (private messaging and media-sharing).