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mekka okereke :verified:
@mekkaokereke@hachyderm.io  ·  activity timestamp 17 hours ago

Y'all are really pushing all of the Black journalists out of the industry, so that you can ask trash questions like this?

Embarrassing.

Some questions are harmful in and of themselves. It doesn't matter what's said in the debate, or who "wins."

Pretending that this is not trash, is weakness.

A NYT video asking "Did Women Ruin the Workplace?"

And can conservative feminism fix it?
A NYT video asking "Did Women Ruin the Workplace?" And can conservative feminism fix it?
A NYT video asking "Did Women Ruin the Workplace?" And can conservative feminism fix it?
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Matt Hardy 3.11 for Workgroups
@technicaladept@techhub.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 11 hours ago

@mekkaokereke I checked to confirm who boosted this onto my feed. Assumed I had a pretty good idea. Turns out it wasn’t @ianbetteridge after all.

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Lea 💚🧵🛠️📊🥧🇺🇦🇵🇸
@leamusi@mendeddrum.org replied  ·  activity timestamp 11 hours ago

@mekkaokereke Ignore this clickbaity BS, our attention should be on the real issues. Maybe ignore all of the #NYT at this point. They don't even report properly on the #climate because they take ad money from oil companies.

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Diane
@alienghic@timeloop.cafe replied  ·  activity timestamp 12 hours ago

@mekkaokereke

Maybe we should ignore the home of the "how can I live on a paltry $400,000 per year" lifestyle essay for being out of touch with most of america?

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staringatclouds
@staringatclouds@mstdn.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 12 hours ago

@mekkaokereke "Some questions are harmful in and of themselves"

There is no "we're just asking questions"

They are shifting the window to prepare the ground for something unthinkable

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@hittitezombie@mastodon.me.uk replied  ·  activity timestamp 13 hours ago

@mekkaokereke
@Lazarou

Rarely the Betteridge's Law applies this strongly.

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Lazarou Monkey Terror 🚀💙🌈
@Lazarou@mastodon.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 13 hours ago

@hittitezombie @mekkaokereke it's worthy of summoning Betteridge himself!

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@Lazarou@mastodon.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 13 hours ago

@mekkaokereke "Can Conservative Feminism Save It?"

No.

It can't even protect itself from it's own men, why would anybody expect anything from White Feminism? You just have to look at JK Rowling....

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@Lazarou@mastodon.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 12 hours ago

@mekkaokereke lol, backlash then....

#NYT #WhiteFeminism #Misogyny #Patriarchy

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Editing the Blue-Gray Lady @nytdiff.bsky.social Change in Headline Did Ween Liberal Feminism Ruin the Workplace? 6 November 2025 at 13:40 395 reposts 415 quotes 1.7K likes 48 saves
Editing the Blue-Gray Lady @nytdiff.bsky.social Change in Headline Did Ween Liberal Feminism Ruin the Workplace? 6 November 2025 at 13:40 395 reposts 415 quotes 1.7K likes 48 saves
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Atz
@atzanteol@techhub.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 14 hours ago

@mekkaokereke
I think it was a mistake to normalize the belief that there are no stupid questions.

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@tripleman@mastodon.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 14 hours ago

@mekkaokereke Next up: Does Consent Ruin Sex?

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mhoye
@mhoye@mastodon.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 14 hours ago

@mekkaokereke The Onion, Feb 9, 2000:

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Charlie Stross
@cstross@wandering.shop replied  ·  activity timestamp 14 hours ago

@mekkaokereke @sophieschmieg Good grief. There's NO SUCH THING as "conservative feminism"! All you've got when you drill down is I've-got-mine Mammonism and patriarchy—Aunt Lydia in a nutshell.

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@steevmi1@freeradical.zone replied  ·  activity timestamp 13 hours ago

@cstross @mekkaokereke @sophieschmieg @mhoye There was a recent spate of "tradwives" articles floating around out there as well, I just assumed from the headline that this was just a variation on a theme.

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mhoye
@mhoye@mastodon.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 13 hours ago

@steevmi1 @cstross @mekkaokereke @sophieschmieg I've always assumed that the tradwife thing was a dom/sub roleplay fetish that escaped containment when somebody who got off on it decided they had enough of a pulpit to start talking about their kinks like they should be a public policy issue, and this nonsense is just in the water now half a mile downriver.

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Graydon
@graydon@canada.masto.host replied  ·  activity timestamp 14 hours ago

@cstross @mekkaokereke @sophieschmieg Sure, but just like the quid pro quo for the quality is "restore de jure chattel slavery everywhere", the quid pro quo for the folks in the MAGA hats is "force women to marry".

Which in turn means "women can't get jobs, bank accounts, loans, or higher education" (at a minimum); all that is in living memory and the bottom two fifths of the male population, should we rank them by social desirability, want it back real bad.

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Fazal Majid
@fazalmajid@social.vivaldi.net replied  ·  activity timestamp 13 hours ago

@graydon @cstross @mekkaokereke @sophieschmieg that's only 20% of the population, they wouldn't win elections without the support of tradwives.

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Graydon
@graydon@canada.masto.host replied  ·  activity timestamp 12 hours ago

@fazalmajid It takes about 10% of the population to have a revolution.

It's a system under selection. (Life is involved, so…) Incumbents (a man granted patriarchal status is an incumbent) cannot accept change because incumbency means "meaningful change" is the same thing as loss of status.

But there's no changing local maxima without going downslope some, and thus we get politics. (This is the problem of armies in an evolved hat. That _is_ progress.)

@cstross @mekkaokereke @sophieschmieg

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Azuaron
@Azuaron@cyberpunk.lol replied  ·  activity timestamp 15 hours ago

@mekkaokereke If I had to work somewhere only populated with men who thought this, I wouldn't work somewhere.

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SouprMatt
@mls14@social.vivaldi.net replied  ·  activity timestamp 15 hours ago

@mekkaokereke Canceled my subscription.

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Rocketman
@slothrop@chaos.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 15 hours ago

@mekkaokereke in the weekend edition, I expect a four-page feature on “how human rights ruined the economy”

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Dana Fried
@tess@mastodon.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 15 hours ago

@mekkaokereke it's too bad I'm not subscribed to the NYT because I would have taken great pleasure in unsubscribing immediately after seeing this.

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Benjamin Balder Bach
@benjaoming@social.data.coop replied  ·  activity timestamp 16 hours ago

@mekkaokereke Did men ruin the workplace?

And can normal, actual feminism fix it?

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Benjamin Balder Bach
@benjaoming@social.data.coop replied  ·  activity timestamp 16 hours ago

@mekkaokereke hahaha, is this reverse click-bait? Like they put something on the website that immediately makes the visitor close the browser tab, close the laptop lid, throw the laptop into the trash bin and cancel their internet subscription? 😂

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mekka okereke :verified:
@mekkaokereke@hachyderm.io replied  ·  activity timestamp 14 hours ago

@benjaoming

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@irenerd@col.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 16 hours ago

@mekkaokereke wow this is very low

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Charlotte Walker
@purplepadma@beige.party replied  ·  activity timestamp 16 hours ago

@mekkaokereke That really is embarrassing. It is not a question anyone should be asking, let alone a national newspaper. Giving legitimacy to that kind of crap

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@per_sonne@ciberlandia.pt replied  ·  activity timestamp 16 hours ago

@mekkaokereke

WHAT THE FUCK IS "CONSERVATIVE FEMINISM"?!?!?!

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Alerta! Alerta!
@heiglandreas@phpc.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 16 hours ago

@mekkaokereke Can someone explain to me like I am a five year old what "conservative feminism" is?

I so far thought I know what "conservative" is and what "feminism" is.

And the Venn diagram of those two concepts shows to circles beneath each other. The distance between them is debateable, but they do not even touch!

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fraggle
@fraggle@social.coop replied  ·  activity timestamp 15 hours ago

@heiglandreas @mekkaokereke pretty sure it means racist white women empowering themselves and nobody else

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Linus Gasser
@ligasser@social.epfl.ch replied  ·  activity timestamp 16 hours ago

@mekkaokereke for one, questions in journalism usually are answered with "no". But it still reads like a really biased piece.

And, of course, from a conservative standpoint, the previous head honchos did lose _some_ influence, due to more women in the workplace. Which, from their point of view, is negative.

From every other point of view, it's a positive development!

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Peter N. M. Hansteen
@pitrh@mastodon.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 16 hours ago

@mekkaokereke I had originally not intended to let my nyt subscription lapse, but late last year that card expired and I needed to update payment details.

Only thing was, card numbers are 16 digits and the nyt payment info form has 16 chars for that field. Which has been instrumented with logic to insert a space after every 4 chars entered, so I only got to enter 13 digits.

Their customer service was all bots, no humans, so I just gave up.

Seeing s**t like this, I'm just happy about that.

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jilleduffy
@jilleduffy@mastodon.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 17 hours ago

@mekkaokereke I saw that on the homepage and decided not to give it my click

Is it deeper than the headline at least?

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mekka okereke :verified:
@mekkaokereke@hachyderm.io replied  ·  activity timestamp 17 hours ago

@jilleduffy

I will never know.

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jilleduffy
@jilleduffy@mastodon.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 17 hours ago

@mekkaokereke Oh ok. You're in the same position as me, then? I.e., didn't give it your click

Being in media/writing/journalism I know all too well that homepage editors or social media editors may change headlines, deks, teasers to be completely non-reflective of the story, so sometimes I am wary. But anything that shows up in that right-most NYT column on the homepage is usually ope-ed trash and I ignore it

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mekka okereke :verified:
@mekkaokereke@hachyderm.io replied  ·  activity timestamp 17 hours ago

@jilleduffy

It's Ross Douthat. So no.

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dr2chase
@dr2chase@ohai.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 16 hours ago

@mekkaokereke @jilleduffy
On the off chance that neither of you know of this, search for "Ross Douthat Chunky Reese Witherspoon". You can lower your opinion of him a little more. The original is his own words of course, but the first commentary on it I know of is https://web.archive.org/web/20090317171556/http://delong.typepad.com/sdj/2009/03/fear-of-reese-witherspoon-look-alikes-on-the-pill.html

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Poloniousmonk
@Uair@autistics.life replied  ·  activity timestamp 17 hours ago

@mekkaokereke

Wow. The NYTimes is so far over the shark it's all the way to Missouri.

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