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Ms. Que Banh
@PhoenixSerenity@beige.party  ·  activity timestamp 4 weeks ago
@dcdeejay I worked as a no-contact dominatrix in downtown Vancouver for 6 months in my 20s & earned just under $8000 for literally whipping fucked up men(ages 22-64) with a leather switch & feeding literal man-babies with a bottle & changing their diapers. I wore a men's style business pants suit most times & never allowed any touching whatsoever.
Only once did a man try to grab me - I stabbed him twice, in the thigh with a knife.

I'm open about who I am & my lived experiences. I don't give a fuck who wants to judge me for being a human who had different experiences than the people who love to judge others for no good reason. I think the people who judge people like me - probably are filled with much worse sinful shit that they want to keep secret forever - in their own heads and/or they've actually committed real violent crimes & are living double/triple lives.

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Ms. Que Banh
@PhoenixSerenity@beige.party replied  ·  activity timestamp 4 weeks ago

If we had #UBI back then & now - poor people like me would not have needed to juggle 3 jobs while trying to pay for our own higher education goals. If you thought someone like me would never need to do any type of #SexWork - you're wrong. Many of us had to do some of that because we had to pay for our own way to try to obtain higher education. I hid this shit for decades. I'm not hiding anymore.

If you're uncomfortable reading this - you should be. What are you going to do to help others who are in the same desperate place that I was in, decades ago?

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Ms. Que Banh
@PhoenixSerenity@beige.party replied  ·  activity timestamp 4 weeks ago

I know 8 girls at UVIC doing sex work to pay.for their tuition & rent, this year. Those are the ones I know of. At every campus, there are sex workers. This is reality. You don't have to like it. I hate it. It is still a current reality.

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