I'm slated to speak at an event where the host refuses to ask the audience to mask because "they are pouring wine." COVID levels are currently high in California (where the event takes place) and nobody will have gotten their vaccines for the new strains yet. My partner is immuno-compromised, so this is a life-and-death issue in my family. I am traveling to the event on my own dime, to perform for free. All I ask is that the audience mask FOR AT MOST 90 MINUTES. Why is this so hard?

Update for all the folks asking: Apparently we will be allowed to "encourage" masking, and a different organizer of the event will bring free masks. I will ask people (nicely) to wear them, and will likely just have to mask on stage. I will also bring my CO2 monitor -- if the air circulation is really good I may take my mask off on stage, as that makes it much easier to project. I'm still really upset, but I'm trying to be nice about it. I'll just never go to this venue again.

@annaleen That seems like a very generous accommodation on your part. It sucks that this is all on you to solve.

My university, which was ahead of the curve through most of the pandemic, no longer requires masks and doesn't allow us to require them, but doesn't stop us from doing so ourselves (and has masks widely available). So I mask while I teach,

@mattblaze That's rough. I find it super hard to teach while masked. Luckily the uni where I was teaching last year was willing to schedule me in rooms with lots of windows that open. So I had my trusty CO2 monitor and only masked on the days when it was so stormy that I couldn't open the windows! (Note: This solution is only good for Californians or others in areas where it does not go below 60 F most of the time.)
@annaleen

If the Socialist convention can require masking the entire weekend (consistently since 2020 and thousands attend), then no one has any excuses.

I'm infuriated on your behalf. That's a pretty basic request.

I'd probably be salty and sit at the door and give everyone who entered a mask and say, "Don't be a death cultist. Wear this mask to protect yourself and others. Airborne diseases don't care about anyone's ideology on masks. They'll infect regardless if you refuse to mask."

@annaleen I often think about this in performing venues. (As an audience member,). Especially in theatres - you are not eating or drinking (much) in the theatre. Why not have #COVIDsafe or, rather, #ImmuneSafe events where all audience members are masked?

That is love in action for vulnerable audiences, but ALSO for the performers, who presumably can't mask!

@annaleen I was grateful for the masking culture at Worldcon. Not 100%, but so much more than I'm used to, and I was happy to see some panelists felt comfortable remaining masked. It was my first Worldcon, and seeing that made me think well of how it was run.

I'm sorry this event is being so wild. It is not a big ask. It should not be a big deal, just not at all, but here we are.