@GeePawHill

A few days ago I deleted all the social apps on my phone except Mastodon.

I still have my accounts on all the other socials, but have deleted all my content and unfollowed everyone on them.

Going forward I’m only adding truly federated apps.

I have three people I follow here (one bsky.brid.gy), and I get all my news from the empty search feed.

Also unfollowed all Apple Podcasts, but will still listen to one if someone posts a link to one I’m interested in.

I’m much happier now.

@GeePawHill What I wish people would do is just say the thing.

"Wow, I can't believe they said that! http //bigcorpsite/trackeduser01483463/trackedpost8434?trackyoutoo=now"

You have to click to even know what the post is even saying!

I don't feel like loading up Tor browser, waiting for it to connect, then waiting for the link to slowly load just to see what some random post is even saying!

@GeePawHill
On the one hand: yes this gets annoying.
On the other hand: my impression is most ppl bridging over from BS just post as if it's all just one site. I know I do here on Mastodon, I.e. I don't think "this post is for those ppl on BS who follow me".
Does that make sense?

I wish they'd all come over to Mastodon, but like that the wonky bridging exists at all. Well done makers and maintainers of the bridge!

@GeePawHill @Gurre You can absolutely copy a link to a fedi post that is followers only and will have other users (including accountless outsiders) be unable to read it without you realising because for the most part the little lock icon is barely visible.

It's mostly a UI problem with bluesky too — they do warn on the web interface that the link might be unusable without an account, but there's no visual cue about the quoted post.

Mostly nobody is doing this to spite fedi users, I'm sure.