This week, a friend told me they'd taken a job with
lower pay and a smaller title.
"It's not my dream job," they said. "But I need the
money."
My heart ached for him.
The last two years have been the hardest l've seen in
30 years of watching the job market. Talented people
who once had their pick of opportunities are taking
lower salaries/titles because they don't have any
choice.
This in a world that's full of "Find your purpose." And
"Do work that lights you up every damn day."
F**k purpose for a minute.
There's no shame in taking the job that feeds your
family. There's no shame in staying in an industry you
don't love if it keeps the lights on.
Some of us are just trying to get through the month.
And that's okay. This season won't last forever.
I used to believe I had to "love what I do" every day.
That if I wasn't perfectly aligned with my highest
values, I was failing.
What a load of privileged bullshit.