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Star Kitty 馃尫
Star Kitty 馃尫
@Crissy@tech.lgbt  路  activity timestamp last month

鈿★笍 The Hardest Act of Kindness: Boundaries.

It鈥檚 easy to think Kindness means keeping the door open, even when we鈥檙e hurting. But true peace requires Integrity鈥攁nd sometimes, integrity means closing the door forever.

I鈥檝e been reflecting on how past pain can try to pull us back into old cycles.

I realized that my desire for harmony (my version of Tikkun Olam, or "repairing the world") doesn't depend on the other person finally being "good."

It depends on me choosing my own worth. My final peace came when I was able to wish someone well (that's Kindness) AND protect the boundary that keeps me safe (that's Integrity).

The block wasn't punishment; it was my final act of self-love. It is the moment we realize: 1 (Kindness/Wish Them Well) + 1 (Integrity/Boundary) = 11 (Peace).

That peace is real, powerful, and it鈥檚 non-negotiable. If you need a boundary to be whole, that is your work. That is your worth.

#LightTriad #SovereignMultiplication #TikkunOlam #BoundariesAreKindness

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