I may regret asking this, but one cannot help but notice again and again that so much of the most horrendous shit you read about is done by cis-men, especially young cis-men. I don't think this is because US media (or many others, for that matter) are skewed against men. I feel like women and non-binary folks are made to deal with the fallout on their own much of the time. For the cis-men out there, in the spirit of "if you see something, say something", can you tell us of a time or times when you worked up your courage to let a fellow cis-man know that something hateful they were doing or talking about doing just was not on?