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Mother Bones
Mother Bones
@_L1vY_@mstdn.social  ·  activity timestamp 3 weeks ago

And the funny thing is, thinking about "working hard" affecting your circumstances. There are maybe two people (in these circles) I can think of who have worked anything CLOSE to as hard or struggled as much as I have over the past 35 years.

AND! I don't think it's a coincidence that those are also the only two people who have offered me financial support when things were really bad!

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Mother Bones
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@_L1vY_@mstdn.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 3 weeks ago

And the funny thing is, thinking about "working hard" affecting your circumstances. There are maybe two people (in these circles) I can think of who have worked anything CLOSE to as hard or struggled as much as I have over the past 35 years.

AND! I don't think it's a coincidence that those are also the only two people who have offered me financial support when things were really bad!

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Mother Bones
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@_L1vY_@mstdn.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 3 weeks ago

Apropos!

#Via Courtney Milan / courtneymilan
2:38 PM · Dec 13, 2025

"The funny thing is there are absolutely traits skills and characteristics that financially super successful people have and they are:

money
being born into money
knowing other people with money"

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@Em0nM4stodon@infosec.exchange replied  ·  activity timestamp 3 weeks ago

@L1vY@mstdn.social I feel this

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@LillyHerself@mastodon.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 3 weeks ago

@Em0nM4stodon Been there done that!

@_L1vY_

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NilaJones
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@NilaJones@zeroes.ca replied  ·  activity timestamp 3 weeks ago

@_L1vY_

It's a VERY difficult thing about adult life and friendship, the way disparate opportunities and downright luck send us into different tracks in life

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Mother Bones
Mother Bones
@_L1vY_@mstdn.social replied  ·  activity timestamp 3 weeks ago

@NilaJones People really believe it was their hard work that got them ahead. But you can always point to the exact circumstances and turning points where our privileges allowed the hard work to even affect anything in your life.

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