Gee-kid stopped by tonight, we had a lovely time.
After he left, I remarked to the spouse, "that boy still ain't figured out his sexuality."
She says, "You're just an old fogey."
Maybe so, sure, maybe so.
But I read people pretty well, I am very good at reading people, and I'm tellin' you, that kid don't know yet where he plays on the gender spectrum or the preference spectrum.
@GeePawHill thankfully, there's no rush. At least, not as long as he follows the only advice my dad gave my teen self on the topic: "don't make babies." (Nothing wrong with babies, mind you—I made one years later—but they do heavily impact one's life trajectory.)