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RE: https://assemblag.es/@inquiline/117289647147958298
still mad and the offense wasn't even done to me (this time)
but... but... but i thought this was *social media* where i say whatever insulting thing i want and because of my self-regard, everyone thinks it's fine
certainly a prime way of demonstrating that one is neither condescending nor splainy nor patronizing nor dare i say passive-aggressive
be well 😂
@inquiline today's been an awful spectacle of replies and posts. All of the *isms* and *splainings*
i'm honestly really struggling w the dynamics here right now (as is apparent). i've withdrawn a bit from this account but it's sort of having the effect of changing the ratio of pleasant interactions *in the wrong direction* so kinda don't know what to do
the ratio of them that are taking offense at what they perceive as incivility towards them is also ... too much, leaving me spluttering
@inquiline i hear you. tbh i've found your responses to be masterclasses i wish you didn't need to give
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@inquiline if you write 'be well' at the end of every post it renders the entire post neutral and well-meaning, apparently - and all impressions of splaining and replyguy just exist in one's own lady brain because he's clearly a 'nice guy' 🙄