There's a concept called active ignorance where you choose to not accept or read evidence of a problematic person or community norm as you don't want to have to think about the harms and perhaps have to give it up.
It's why I'm irritated by the folks who are all no politics please, just the tech. Or that "Bob and Van" piece.
Who you accept in your community, who you choose to work with, especially if you excuse abusive behaviour damages a community more. We see you.
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/343952142_Ignorance_arrogance_and_privilege
@onepict I used to listen to that "Bob and Van" guy's podcast. And over time I started to notice he sounded a lot like many of the folks I used to deal with back when I freelanced for various "libertarian" outfits. There's a clear progression from complaining about perceived minor inconveniences to deciding that *you* are the real victim of persecution you need to defend yourself, possibly by storming a larged domed building.