@davidgerard @kevingranade @MaddieM4 *puts on linguist hat* there are two things here:
1) I'd define slurs are words that mark out members of marginalised communities as socially acceptable (according to the slur sayer) targets of discrimination and violence. That's what differentiates them from insults. As software cannot be a marginalised person—unlike what some nutters believe—and as "LLM user" cannot make one so either, none of these words are actually slurs, they're just insults. Some people call them slurs but neither that nor literally anything else warrant an actual comparison to actual slurs, and actually attempting to make that comparison is very naive at best. The comparison to "techbro/terf/... is a slur" is very apt.
2) But yes there are some people who roleplay racism using these words. Just because that's happening does not mean anybody who insults a prompt fondler is slur saying bigot. With that logic we basically wouldn't have access to language anymore, because racists &c exploit everything at their disposal linguistically.
Plus the notion that saying these insults somehow normalises racism and racial slurs etc is, putting it mildly, bollocks. We're not heuristic automata we know what's a slur and what's not and if the former is coming out of your mouth it's not because you called some app or machine a clanker, it's because you're a bigot.