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I grew up as a non-fundamentalist, non-evangelical Christian. But I was certainly exposed to many fundamentalist and/or evangelical Christians. There's a couple different ways that can break, many of them unhealthy.
I'd say a more common (and more subtle) way that ex-evangelicals carry their indoctrination is that they then become for lack of better terms, "evangelical atheists", who believe that anybody who believes in some kind of god or higher power is morally inferior.
I've never particularly liked or respected Bill Maher, or Sam Harris and the rest of the "new atheists", for some reason I just instantly identified all of them as deeply problematic allies at best, and generally deserving of serious side-eye. I feel like my initial judgement has been largely vindicated over the years.
On the other hand, I do believe in a higher power, and I do have an immense amount of respect for atheists like Hemant Mehta, Rebecca Watson, Drew McCoy, Owen Morgan, Jared Huffman, and Greg Graffin. I would feel genuinely bad if any of those turned out to secretly be immoral, rotten people underneath their public persona.