If you are in your late thirties to mid-forties right now, there is a good chance that you have spent most of your life in a cycle of making some sort of home on the internet only to have it crumble beneath you like chalk and having to start over.
Post
Replies:
0
@evacide Happened to my own site after Square bought the host, tripled the price, and removed every feature I used.
@evacide Does 48 still count as 'mid-forties'?
@evacide I'm barely in my 30s and I feel this. Part of why it frustrates the shit out of me how hard it apparently is for people to move services when one enshitifies
@evacide My default Signal notification sound is now the ICQ "Uh-oh!" sound.
@evacide The reason I'm on mastodon.social is because it seems the least "run out of someone's basement with no clear legal structure or succession plan" of all the instances. I want my toots to last a bit!
@evacide fifties here. And same
@evacide early 60s and I've seen this happen over and over
@evacide @LabSpokane The key is to not make a home in property you don't own. 🤷🏼♀️
@evacide cringy it may sounds but since the BBS days I've always felt like a 'digital nomad', purely people you like to hang around, don't always want to stay together for long periods of time.
in the past i hosted my own BBS and echomailing network to get some 'stability' to my online circles. but in 2026, it would require non-trivial $ to host due to the sheer scale and noise in feeds.
sometimes everyone gets off the bus except you, maybe new passengers will come along for the ride, or maybe you'll drive alone into the sunset... it's important to enjoy the journey, not the destination.
I guess.
@evacide two of the forums that I basically grew up on are still going, but the one that was very much my first internet home had some very vocal alt-right folks that the admins refused to ban, so I stopped visiting around 2016. Tried to go back a few months ago only to find some long-time members basically cheering on the Gaza genocide, so decided it could fuck off into the sun forever.
@evacide oh, yeah, sure. So, are we just being goth about the past or do we wanna burn the networks and take everything we're owed? I'm down either way.
@evacide multiple times. It’s almost like profit-driven things aren’t supposed to exist.
