@vk5qi @mherbert @foone @xssfox
Did you check out the fine work of @stefan who manages the Botmakers Community at https://botmakers.org
If anyone can suggest good places, It is Stefan and others from this community.
A well-themed instance that may be worth checking out is https://cyberpunk.lol - But before creating an account I recommend to check with @vantablack upfront to see if there is a good match.