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Jan Wildeboer 😷:krulorange:
@jwildeboer@social.wildeboer.net  ·  activity timestamp 4 hours ago

And yes, if you are asking yourself why so many people leave the fediverse after a bit of trying to find out if they like it here or not — this is one of the reasons. The never-ending stream of guys (it's always guys) that have to prove to themselves how smart they are by belittling others through replies on their posts — it's tiring. And new folks typically are a bit frightened to do the obvious thing: Block on first sight. Your timeline, your decision. Embrace the mute and block :)

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Jan Wildeboer 😷:krulorange:
@jwildeboer@social.wildeboer.net replied  ·  activity timestamp 4 hours ago

So. If you see someone trying something new, sharing something that you feel you know a lot about, try to post a simple "Nice!" or similar reply once a day. When enough people do that, things will feel better. It won't silence or remove the reply guys, but trust me, encouraging someone else makes them AND YOU feel better 😊

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